Comfort is the killer of a man’s drive and determination. The more comfortable you are, the less fight you have in you. If you want success—whether in relationships, personal growth, or faith—you must make peace with the death of your comfort.
Christ calls us to die to our flesh to gain the Kingdom of Heaven. But what does that really mean?
We’ve all heard the story of the rich young ruler. When asked to sell all he had and follow Jesus, he walked away saddened because his possessions meant more to him than eternal life. While most of us may not be called to sell everything, we still face daily decisions requiring us to deny ourselves and follow Christ’s example.
The Daily Battle Against Comfort
Perhaps for you, it’s not material possessions but habits, attitudes, or comforts. Ask yourself:
- What in your life do you value more than Christ?
- What would be hardest for you to give up if He asked?
When you identify that thing—there is your starting point.
Growth Is Found in Discomfort
Growth isn’t supposed to feel easy. Consider Tom Brady, one of the greatest quarterbacks of all time. He didn’t win a Super Bowl the first time he touched a football. In fact, his first pass at the University of Michigan was an interception.
Similarly, as we strive to live like Christ, we will fail. We will fall short. There will be moments of frustration when it feels impossible to live up to His example.
But that’s the point.
God doesn’t expect perfection. He knows we can’t do it on our own—that’s why Christ’s sacrifice is so vital. What God asks of us is to try, to make the effort, and to grow in our faith.
Practical Steps to Embrace Discomfort and Grow
1. Identify What’s Holding You Back
- Reflect on your daily life. What’s one comfort, habit, or behavior you cling to?
- Consider giving it up or reshaping it to glorify God.
2. Choose to Love as Christ Loved
- Loving others isn’t always easy, especially those who hurt or challenge us. But Christ commands us to love others as He loved us.
3. Accept Failure and Keep Going
- Failure isn’t the end; it’s part of the journey. Instead of fearing it, embrace it as a lesson and a reminder of your dependence on God.
4. Push Your Limits Regularly
- Whether it’s in your faith, career, or personal life, choose the harder path when it leads to growth.
Conclusion
Living for Christ means stepping out of your comfort zone daily. It means making choices that prioritize faith and selflessness over temporary pleasures.
It’s not easy—but it’s worth it.
So, decide today:
- To give up what’s holding you back.
- To love others boldly.
- To embrace discomfort for the sake of growth.
The more you get comfortable with being uncomfortable, the closer you’ll come to fulfilling your greater purpose.
